Saturday, March 6, 2010

'FRIENDSHIP' IS IT LIFE TIME?

At first What is a friend ? as everybody knows a friend is who ,who cares for you,who loves you,who stands with you in difficulties bla bla bla.................
There are thousands of definition about friend, but to define a friend there no need any definition, it is such a thing without which life is nothing but a dustbin.
I am very friendly I know, So, I made many friends till now,and still making.....
I know many kinds of friend.
Some friends are good and some friends are not bad, means good in friendship but not quality person. So,whatever, we accept them as our  friend because they remain with us all the time,they help us,they play with us,they share with us,they enjoy with us,they smoke with us,they drink with us and also many things....
but he /she is also our friend who can't give company all the time now but thinking and caring about us from somewhere else,
One of my very good friend send me an sms that 'friend does not mean that hang over with you all time,it means to sharing the honest part to you.'
Its really a great thought, A friend can slap you when you are on wrong direction, But always we mistake considering him/her as a friend who gives us company in the bad works means what is bad for us and also knowing the bad part of it.
When we became the common friend of two good friends but opposite in character,this is the true difficulty to keep them both,but often we take the side of the negative friend,Which is not a good idea.
Sometimes a friend make us to frustrate stopping us doing bad works and sometimes we leave that friend.But later we come to know, that was our true friend,sometimes we cant realize it  for a long time.
We  cant say that a true friend is who, who remain with us forever,sometimes we force him/her to leave our friendship.
So friendship is very sensitive thing ,We wouldnot be able to understand when it broke

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