Being a student of Mechanical Love is not Easy !!
Being a student of mechanical, the toughest thing is to approach a stranger girl with whom u fell something special.
No offense, Mechanical engg. students are most bold, rude, rough, tough, unromantic human beings (exceptions are everywhere). talking with an unknown girl doesn't crumble us, until it's not about love. When u just seen a girl and just want to be with her, just want to hold her hand, just want to hug her when you are low, when you are ready to live the rest of the life with that girl, then it turns into a storm in the Sun, As a mechanical Engg. student, we r not living in surroundings of girls, girls are alien to us and we are aliens to girls. When somehow how you manage to talk with a girl and after u introduce your self that you are pursuing mech. engg. later on that girl won't meet u again or will avoid you every time. I asked few girls who are close to me, why girls don't like us? I got same answer from all of them, in one word "Mechanical guys r ruthless' . Really I can't say they are wrong. It has it own reasons, This 4 years of B.tech is life's turning point and in this time a boy turns into a Man, and in this time we live without company of any girl , so we never feel that we need to show our emotions to someone. whatever emotions we had before we already had dig 6 feet down. Why we talk rude ? The reason behind this, all day living among guys. Teachers r also became engineer like us. So, we never thought about modesty in our way of talking, coz no girl is listening to us. That's why girls always run away from us. If we take the cases of other branches like CSE, ECE they even don't feel complexity with girls, they fall love with their classmate or any friend. So nothing very serious or not a very big obstacle need to be broken. Its always the same boring love story type thing.
So I was talking about what would a mech. guy do if he really fell love with a stranger girl . First of all he tries to make himself realize that, that girl is not his type of girl, she must deserve any better than him or 'Kaha wo Hur ki pari aur kaha ye Gadha'. But when all that confessions stops work, then he realize that he must talk with that girl. Later on he assumes a lot of things. Coz Mech guys need to assume a lots of Eddie forces in most of the subjects, If the girl denies , if the girl has a boyfriend, If doesn't want to come in a relationship, if she doesn't like him, a millions of thoughts comes into mind. And all those thoughts apply a opposite force which raise a fear in his mind to talk with that girl. He started roaming around her, started noticing her, he collects every information about that girl. Make himself sure, is there any thing which is not favorable to him ? He feels jealous when somebody else notice her or follow her, even sometime he could beat any other guy who tries to flirt with her. Even he feels jealous of her friends who talks with her very closely. After wasting so many times to see her profile pic in facebook he discover new facts about her, he tries to search connection with anybody in her friend-list, but it can be worse when her friend -list is hidden, The cursor roam around over the 'send her friend request' button but still don't have the guts to send her a friend request. He thinks every possibility to just get into her notice. The only fear hidden in his mind is 'If she denies?' .
Sometimes the whole process gone so long and finally he started talk with that girl and his heart breaks into fragments when he comes to know that somebody proposed her recently and she has gone into relation with that guy. And he still wonder when all that happened coz everytime he was stalking over her. And he thought if he would send her a friend request, if he would talk with her in first chance, if he would propose her at the very beginning.
Ultimately he again become the regular customer of Raj Cigarette shop and Desi Theka near by the college campus. And Love become a "Kutti chiz" for him until he find someone better.
